One of my clients, Peter, is working on undoing the damage he did in hopes of getting his ex girlfriend back. He made sure to keep her close, but not too close. Her patience had run out, and she explained that she felt disrespected and manipulated by him because he wanted to have his cake and eat it too, and that she knew she wanted something different now.
You might be wondering if he or she is playing mind games with you when in truth, your ex is trying to get you back! They might be testing the waters to see how you feel, or they might be using the push and pull technique on you to make you want them back….
I know that my ex is using the No Contact rule on me. I happen to find this out reading comments she left on some blog. After several attempts at contacting her, I did some Google searches on an ex not responding and by pure luck happened to read a comment she had left which detailed our relationship and the breakup. She also mentioned that I had attempted to contact her but she deleted the texts and left my calls to go to the answer machine which she later deleted without playing.
What do you think I should do? You can 1 give in and beg, 2 call her out on it, 3 play along and make her realize how immature her actions are, 4 ignore her and wait for her to contact you or 5 ignore her and move on with your life. That can mess you up big time — not to mention make it impossible to create a healthy relationship. My ex and I have been broken up for 5 months. I was going to propose to her but she broke up with me before I had the chance.
I guess I was wrong. What about that catch up? How long does a girl have to run after you before you give her the time of day? They then might arrange to catch up and when they do, she acts disinterested and possibly even flirts with the waiter or other guys around her.
Then, she can hurt him by saying that she is so happy and in love with her new guy and the new guy makes her feel way better than he ever did. If you allow your ex to mess with your head, it will do nothing to change her negative feelings for you and make her want you back. Instead, simply take charge of the situation and use it as an opportunity to spark her feelings of respect and attraction for you. For example: Using the first scenario above, a way to respond when a woman is being cold towards you and flirting with other guys when you catch up, is to laugh at her behavior or ignore it and see it for the test of your confidence that it really is.
Instead, just be relaxed, masculine and easy-going and laugh at her, rather than with her. She will likely feel a bit shocked that you are being ballsy, but still being a good man and standing up to her in that way. I think we should break up. Sometimes a woman will become a completely different person than she was during the relationship, in an attempt to make her ex hate her and move on.
Yet, funnily enough, all it usually takes is a spark of respect and attraction to make her drop her guard. Can you ever forgive me? Maybe we can be friends again? If a guy was insecure in his relationship with his ex, she will usually play mind games with him to test whether or not he is now more confident and emotionally strong, or if he is still the same insecure, self-doubting guy that she broke up with.
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